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100 Unique Japanese Baby Names for Boys and Girls
Sakura Godber’s first instinct when considering baby names for her son in 2012 was to lean towards more Western names. Her own first name, which means “cherry blossom” in Japanese, was paired with a Western middle name — Diane — to reflect her Japanese American identity.
But for a time during her childhood, Godber wished to be more legible to American society and wanted to be ...
Return to ‘The Joy Luck Club’ With Tamlyn Tomita
Actress Tamlyn Tomita, 60, sits in front of a red and black kimono from the 1900s that is hanging on the wall of her Los Angeles home. Its age makes it too delicate to dance in, as she does during Obon season, the annual Japanese Buddhist festival that celebrates ancestral spirits. The scale of the kimono’s flower motif is very loud and theatrical, she says. Her husband, Daniel Blinkoff, bought it for her on eBay.
“He thought this was very me,” she says wryly, laughing.
Tomita’s hair is style...
Head Turners: Olympian Michelle Kwan Pivots to Public Service
The collective memory of Michelle Kwan always puts her on ice, enveloped in chiffon as she glides in defiance of time. Since retiring from the sport 17 years ago, the two-time Olympic medalist and figure skating Hall of Famer has ente...
Who should clean up the mess your kid makes? Some parents weigh in
The controversy over a pregnant mom being asked by a flight attendant to clean up her kid’s spilled popcorn got us wondering: In public spaces, whose job is it to clean up after your messy kid?
In my case, my son, who is now an adult, was a notoriously messy eater as an infant. Every meal at an Indian or Chinese restaurant invariably ended with fistfuls of rice strewn around the floor surrounding his high chair.
My husband and I were always very apologetic – and always tipped our server a lit...
How 'Better Luck Tomorrow' helped change how Hollywood saw Asian Americans
Janet Wang was a junior in high school when she watched “Better Luck Tomorrow,” a movie about a group of high-achieving Asian American high schoolers with a penchant for theft and murder. In the darkened theater, she saw a reflection of herself — not in the criminal activities but in the nuanced portrayals of complex kids growing up in the suburbs.
It was the first time Wang saw a cast that looked like her starring in a highly stylized movie like the MTV videos and shows she loved. Plus, it w...
Is your kid shy, or simply slow to warm up? Why being cautious gives some children a sense of control
Anna Magnuson’s twin daughters have different ways of approaching ballet class. One usually runs into the studio first and boldly performs a series of pliés to capture the teacher’s attention. The other twin clutches a teddy bear, lingers a few steps back, and watches the action before joining the line of little dancers.
Their distinct personalities earned the 4-year-old fraternal twins endearing nicknames: Magnuson calls the outgoing one her “Lisa Simpson Twin,” and the naturally cautious on...
Ready to embrace cluttercore? Head to these eclectic L.A. shops
As kids, we really knew how to decorate. Time-travel back to your childhood bedroom and gaze upon those four walls: Perhaps you’ll find a tear-out (or 10) from teen magazines of a broody Brad Pitt, Radiohead album cover posters and the sweetest Sanrio accessories with the talismanic power to elicit joy. Just me? Probably not. Your younger self’s design choices told visitors exactly what you liked, where you’d been and what you valued. But somewhere along the way, we all started decorating for...
America Erased the Postpartum Pause New Parents Need—Here’s How to Get That Time Back
In 2003, after Heng Ou gave birth to her first child, her aunt and cousin drove down from the Bay Area and temporarily moved into her suburban Los Angeles home for 10 days. They became fixtures in the kitchen, cooking soup and meals that perfumed the home with delicious aromas.
“It was a really satisfying experience because I was being nurtured,” says Ou. This postpartum practice of nurturing the mother aligns with the Chinese cultural practice of zuo yue zi, or sitting the month, a time when...
Channel Your Main Character Energy With the Rom-Com Core Fashion Trend
The diaphanous dress with the soft pink flower motif and ruffled shoulder straps on a thrift store rack called out to Kayla Marie. “Put me on,” the dress seemed to say to the 27-year-old video editor. Paired with a brown shoulder bag and some ruffle ankle socks, the item of clothing could make her feel as confident as Jenna Rink, the teen character magically transformed into an adult portrayed by Jennifer Garner in the 2004 romantic comedy 13 Going on 30, Marie thought.
“I knew it would make ...
A ‘slam dunk’ bill to prevent a repeat of an ugly chapter of American history
February 19, 1942 changed everything for Japanese Americans.
The curves and flourishes of President Franklin D. Roosevelt’s signature that day on Executive Order 9066 precipitated the forced removal and incarceration of Japanese...
Opinion: Ballroom dancing remains a refuge for Asian immigrants
A dance floor has equalizing power. When the music starts, differences fall away. On the dance floor, it doesn’t matter if you’re rich or poor. No one judges where you came from or what language you speak. What m...
Chef Martin Yan Explains Lunar New Year’s Connection to Food
Martin Yan is always in motion.
In the kitchen of his Bay Area home, he flits behind an island table filled with his latest creations: meatballs, rice pudding and lotus sandwiches artfully presented with a tableau of red envelopes and golden oranges.
The chef, who started cooking on TV for an American audience in 1982, just finished livestreaming a free monthly cooking demonstration in partnership with On Lok, a nonprofit center that provides services to older adults in the Bay Area. Th...
Opinion: This most important day for Asian Americans has a meaning everyone can embrace
You could be forgiven if January 22 passes without you noticing anything special about the day. Despite its global significance, most markers of civic society in the US — banks, schools, businesses, and governmen...
Clutter Can Be Good for Your Mental Health
When Michelle Delabrer moved into her house, she filled the space with all the things she loved: a framed photo of the Weasley family from the Harry Potter films, an array of Japanese rice ball tchotchkes, and manatees. Lots and lots of manatee trinkets. “They’re all reminders,” says the graphic designer, “of happy things.”
During the bleak early days of the pandemic, surr...
Patsy Mink and the Revolutionary Role of Motherhood
Picture this: A young woman pregnant with her first child is prescribed vitamins by her doctor. She faithfully swallows the round white pills to nourish herself and the li...